N.E., that's terrible.
Lalaith wrote: ↑Thu Mar 10, 2022 3:15 pm
RoseMorninStar wrote:oh.. yeah.. that definitely would not go over well. My friend is American has a melting pot family and to presume that we support Ukraine because we're 'all' white American's and 'those other people of color' aren't deserving of our compassion in the same way.. (understandably) really wouldn't go over well. I understand what you're saying Laly, but my friend has a good point.
Then I'm afraid I'm missing your friend's point.
I'll give it a go Laly, but I fear I may fall woefully short/may not be up to the task.
I'd like to make it clear I am not agitating for an argument nor am I trying to shame anyone. My friend has a valid point but due to my lack of exposure, ignorance, misunderstandings, etc..., I am grappling with what this lesson should be teaching me.. because I do believe there is a lesson here, for all of us. My friend has experiences and exposures I have not had. While she is 'white' many in her family are black, Puerto Rican, Hispanic, etc.. but all are
AMERICANS. Every bit as much as say, Irish, French, or Ukrainian
Americans. There has been an outpouring of support around the world and here in the US for the people of Ukraine and it's plight. There is nothing wrong with that. From her viewpoint, and not incorrectly, at least according to media I've seen here in the US, the outpouring of support and concern far exceeds the concern for people of black, brown, yellow nations who are or who have been in desperate situations and in need of support. Unfortunately there have also been reports of black, Indian, etc.. (ie. people of different skin tones) from within Ukraine struggling to be treated equally.
I'd also like to make clear that I acknowledge that there are several things at play and it's a complicated situation; one being anti-Putin sentiment, another being the threat of WWIII &/or a nuclear war. I also think cultural similarities/differences, and common languages play a part. Also, the US WAS involved in those other conflicts so (for better or worse) people may have felt we were trying to make a difference (I know a pitiful amount about those conflicts, unfortunately).
I gained a good deal of enlightenment to the question of 'race' during the recent Whoopie Goldberg screw-up. In my ignorance I also presumed Jewish people to be generally considered 'white' and don't think Whoopie was far off the mark in presuming most Americans view 'race' as something we can see. I acknowledge I have a long way to go but I'm wondering what I should be taking away from this situation that is not immediately apparent/that I am missing. But it IS there.
My friend, with whom I generally correspond almost every day sometimes multiple times a day, is currently not speaking to me and I've tried to be as compassionate and honest as I can, but I've fallen short of the mark. I realize people who are oppressed, victims, etc.. do not feel they should have to 'teach' us why we are being ignorantly callous but not everyone has had the same experiences and exposures. It's not always possible to walk a mile in another persons shoes and so we must learn from one another. That is what I'm attempting to do but I am thinking most of us here are from similar backgrounds and don't have insight to the issue.
My friends comments, for reference:
I find it somewhat curious and sad that the world rallies for Ukrainians in a way that did not happen for Afghanis and Iraqis most recently. Syrian refugees became a big problem for Europe. Not as widespread an outpouring of support for them as for the Ukrainians. Why? Also, I find troubling the reports of black people and students from India who are trying to get out being held back and mistreated by Ukrainians. Kind of an awful thing.
I don't know how Ukrainians not being oppressed and being invaded makes them more sympathetic? Is the implication they are innocent? If so, why weren't Iraqis and Afghanis? They had zero to do with being invaded, and Iraq and Afghanistan civilians were most certainly invaded and bombed by the US. I don't think it is true that foreign national males in Ukraine are not allowed to leave, that would be a violation of international law, and no better than what Russians do. There have been reports of prominent men leaving who are white. I think that may be the actual root of the issue: Ukrainians are mostly white and Christian. I don't think I'm coming up with an original thought there.