This is not an insertion of realism or fact; it is opinion. There is a simple way to equate female circumcision (mutilation) with male circumcision (mutilation). I have just done so. Loading one surgical procedure with an emotive term is akin to "begging the question". Mutilation needs to be defined. There are people who view tattoos as mutilation, whilst others consider them aesthetically pleasing adornment. The term is subjective, as was your initial assertion.Holbytla wrote:I'm am not advocating for or against circumcision, but I think some realism has to be inserted into this thread, as well as a few facts.
There is no way to equate female mutilation with male circumcision.
None at all.
What does "nearly dead" mean? The foreskin has a healthy blood supply (otherwise it would atrophy and fall off) with quite sufficient nerve endings, thank you (I know. I have had the unhappy experience of catching my foreskin in my fly zip...).Holbytla wrote:There is a lot of talk about choices and surgery and pain. I agree with choices with regards to cosmetic things, but in reality we are talking about a bit of nearly dead skin with few nerve endings. Very little of the skin (if any) is actually excised, and most of it is just displaced.
Suturing is repairing. Male (penile) mutilation (See what I did there?) is the cosmetic alteration of the male genitalia. As such, it has much more in common with female (clitoral) mutilation than suturing.Holbytla wrote:It is far more comparable to suturing a cut than it is to female mutilation.
Remembering, or having no memory of pain is hardly a criterian for the inflicting of pain. Simply because a baby fails to remember an act is no justification for that act. If such was the case, the sexual abuse of very young infants (cases of which have, distressingly, become more apparent in the UK recently, by women and men) would not be an issue, which would be a perverse judgement!Holbytla wrote:Babies that small are far from fully developed in many areas, and memory of pain does not exist for them. Children 2 years of age have no concept of sharing. It just isn't something that the brain is capable of at that age. Nor is a newborn capable of remembering any thing shortly after birth.
Again, you state it is not mutilation, without explaining why it is not mutilation. You need to define what is mutilation. And you feeling that being circumcised is no deal at all is fine. For you. However, your opinion on this does not, by default, entail that the opinion of others will concur, and fails to justify the withdrawal of choice and consent for others. The ear lobe can be large or non-existent. Would it be justifiable for lobed babies to have their earlobes removed for cosmetic reasons? I would view such actions as assault and mutilation. Wouldn't you?Holbytla wrote:Choice is another matter, but in all honesty we are talking about skin being forward or backward. It isn't akin to any type of mutilation, and the sensitivity issue is way overblown. I won't go into personal details, but being circumsized is not a huge deal at all, and actually may be a blessing.
ETA Thanks, nerdanel. That link is much appreciated, to a fascinating discussion.