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by nerdanel
Wed Nov 06, 2013 5:31 am
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Same-sex, whole-milk marriage: 50 Shades of Gay
Replies: 2660
Views: 633025

Well, number 16 was not Hawaii (still pending), but Illinois!

http://www.latimes.com/nation/la-na-gay ... 7118.story
by nerdanel
Fri Nov 01, 2013 8:19 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Should we separate the author from the work?
Replies: 128
Views: 52846

(xposts with Al) But that's the thing, they weren't sociopaths , or at least one can't accuse the vast swath of Germans involved of that. No, they had just stopped thinking of Jews as humans and so that cruelty to them didn't "count". Dehumanizing your enemy or getting a message from God ...
by nerdanel
Fri Nov 01, 2013 6:47 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Same-sex, whole-milk marriage: 50 Shades of Gay
Replies: 2660
Views: 633025

We're getting very close in Hawaii: http://www.advocate.com/politics/marriage-equality/2013/10/30/breaking-hawaii-senate-oks-marriage-equality-house Senate said yes, House is debating and is closer now (but is expected to pass next week), and the governor has pledged to sign the bill. We are directl...
by nerdanel
Mon Oct 21, 2013 10:02 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Same-sex, whole-milk marriage: 50 Shades of Gay
Replies: 2660
Views: 633025

Oh sorry, I meant to post the NYT link to that. I waited to update the thread title until it was official that there was not going to be a further appellate proceeding.
by nerdanel
Mon Oct 21, 2013 8:55 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Same-sex, whole-milk marriage: 50 Shades of Gay
Replies: 2660
Views: 633025

I have updated the thread title.
by nerdanel
Mon Oct 21, 2013 1:17 am
Forum: Golfimbul's Rabbit Hole
Topic: Take me out to the ballgame!
Replies: 1563
Views: 459615

Anything that SF cannot win, Boston should win. Applying that common-sense logical principle, go Sox!!!!
by nerdanel
Mon Sep 30, 2013 10:54 pm
Forum: Tol Eressëa
Topic: Who are you?
Replies: 111
Views: 97281

The conversation as it's unfolding in this thread, though, contains a number of as-yet unquestioned presumptions that originate from the Judeo-Christian tradition (primarily the Christian aspect thereof), even beyond the mere existence of an afterlife, e.g. - The idea that we will be "perfected...
by nerdanel
Mon Sep 30, 2013 5:56 am
Forum: Tol Eressëa
Topic: Who are you?
Replies: 111
Views: 97281

Hmmm. An eternal break from trying to make sense of things. That does kind of sound like heaven, doesn't it? Honestly, and I'm not trying to be difficult here, but the process of trying to make sense of things is so fundamental to what I understand to be "human" that I'm not really sure w...
by nerdanel
Sat Sep 21, 2013 12:06 am
Forum: Arda Unmarred
Topic: Nature Pics
Replies: 3772
Views: 1138896

I really should read this thread more often. Gorgeous pics, V and narya. :love:
by nerdanel
Sat Sep 14, 2013 8:28 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: British Parliament votes against military action in Syria
Replies: 113
Views: 41991

But the only score that matters right now is this: US bombs dropped on Syria = 0 Additional chemical weapons attacks by Assad = 0 I'm no foreign policy-maker, but I am a pragmatist, and the things I care about are, in descending order of importance: - Loss of some number of additional lives - from ...
by nerdanel
Sun Jul 07, 2013 1:23 am
Forum: Tol Eressëa
Topic: Plane crash at San Francisco International Airport
Replies: 18
Views: 30662

Absolutely tragic. I hate that what for so many of us is a place of comfort, our "home base," will now invoke for others memories of fear and injury and tragedy. Of course things are worse still for the two confirmed who have lost their lives and possibly for others among the unaccounted f...
by nerdanel
Thu Jul 04, 2013 12:57 am
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Same-sex, whole-milk marriage: 50 Shades of Gay
Replies: 2660
Views: 633025

I generally agree with V's assessment that Kennedy was not prepared to declare a sweeping, nationwide right to same-sex marriage. He certainly has laid the groundwork to do so in 5-10 years. If the current pace of increasing acceptance of gay couples and same-sex marriage continues, it is likely tha...
by nerdanel
Tue Jul 02, 2013 5:52 am
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

There has not been any "double standard" on this for a very, very long time (in Internet years); your comment deals with old history. (ETA I'm not sure that we ever publicly announced that we had adopted this policy, which we probably should have done at the time - sorry!) Well as I had n...
by nerdanel
Mon Jul 01, 2013 7:20 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

Oh, I went and looked it up. I was the culprit, and it looks like the reason for deletion in that case was again that I'd written some personal stuff about my family and then rethought my comfort level in sharing it. Anyway, you objected to my deleting that post in November 2009 , and since your obj...
by nerdanel
Mon Jul 01, 2013 7:13 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

I need to interject a quick response to something Nin said on the previous page: I also wanted to add a personal experience: ever since I found out once in the current of a thread that some posters on this board can not only edit their posts and even edit them out, but entirely and completely delet...
by nerdanel
Mon Jul 01, 2013 5:50 am
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

Your repeated insistence that people should post and behave the way that you want them to is far more irritating to me than any deleted post I can recall on this board. I haven't seen Jewel doing this. As I see it, she has been expressing a concern that people were censoring themselves. I'd say her...
by nerdanel
Sun Jun 30, 2013 7:44 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

I think what we write on a public messageboard becomes public; it is no longer our private property. I understand that some people may feel this way, but I will choose not to post (or post very sparingly and non-substantively) on any messageboard that enforces this view. You can certainly create a ...
by nerdanel
Sun Jun 30, 2013 7:04 pm
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

Narya, that makes a lot of sense: most of the posts I may reconsider or remove are Lasto/Manwe-style posts. However, there have been times on this board when I've wanted to withdraw more personal posts that have dealt explicitly with my own life, family history, personal decisions, etc. In some case...
by nerdanel
Sun Jun 30, 2013 9:37 am
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

Saying that deleting posts is "not helpful to achieving any constructive purpose" seems to ignore the strong benefit to the individual poster of removing from the public view words that they no longer wish to share. In turn, knowing that one can speak without having one's words indelibly t...
by nerdanel
Sun Jun 30, 2013 8:32 am
Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
Topic: Deletion discussion
Replies: 262
Views: 83783

Anthy, I can relate to some of the ideas you're expressing. If I'm on the fence about making a particular post (not just at HoF, but in general online), at times the lack of response or type of response I get to that post will influence whether I leave it up. The reasons I might question a particula...