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- Mon Jan 21, 2008 4:38 am
- Forum: The Library of Rivendell
- Topic: Five Must Have Books
- Replies: 58
- Views: 27530
Hm...That would really be difficult. Assuming that I can count my LotR, The Silmarillion and The Hobbit as one book, I would also take The Walking Drum by Louis L'Amour, The Tibetan Book of the Dead, Good Omens by Terry Pratchett and Neil Gamain, The Icewind Dale Trilogy by R.A. Salvatore, The Belga...
- Sun Dec 23, 2007 7:54 pm
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Signs of Child Abuse: How do you deal with it?
- Replies: 35
- Views: 14928
For several months, despite my best precautionary measures, my daughter always had a bruise on her forehead. I got all kinds of dirty looks and comments from random strangers. It was quite embarrassing. I am not defending this particular dad. The whole idea of leaving a child with a complete strange...
- Thu Dec 06, 2007 10:51 pm
- Forum: The Library of Rivendell
- Topic: Take a Recommendation, Leave a Recommendation!
- Replies: 48
- Views: 24996
Anybody who has not read Good Omens by Terry Pratchett and Neil Gamain should. Then while your at it, read everything else written by both authors.:) I can't recommend The Walking Drum by Louis L'Amour highly enough. It is one of the best books that has ever come into existence. It is set in 11th ce...
- Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:49 am
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Outsourcing Medicine
- Replies: 6
- Views: 4351
- Mon Dec 03, 2007 4:46 am
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: If the US election were next week...
- Replies: 146
- Views: 49808
- Mon Nov 19, 2007 5:25 am
- Forum: Welcome to Our Messageboard! COME HERE FIRST
- Topic: GREETINGS to our Newest Members!
- Replies: 2822
- Views: 985945
- Sun Nov 11, 2007 5:10 pm
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Women in Society
- Replies: 215
- Views: 58894
I work at home as a seamstress, and that has been the best overall balance between work and family that I could come up with. It is not the best paying in the world, being that I make only about $15 an hour. But, it works, and I don't have to worry about who is taking care of my children. I can unde...
- Mon Oct 15, 2007 2:27 pm
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Advice on Christian Education
- Replies: 17
- Views: 8004
That is more of a Gnostic viewpoint, though, which most of mainstream Christianity frowns upon. The unfortunate thing is that many Christians take the all or nothing approach. Then they also pick and choose which parts of the Bible that they want to take literally and which to take figuratively. The...
- Mon Oct 15, 2007 3:42 am
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Protests in Burma
- Replies: 33
- Views: 14908
- Sat Oct 13, 2007 2:45 pm
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Advice on Christian Education
- Replies: 17
- Views: 8004
I can easily see Bible study as just another subject. It would be no different than studying the Koran or The Tibetan Book of the Dead to me. I am not so sure that I would have been able to do that at 12, though. I remember disbelieving a lot of what was in the Bible, but not having the courage to o...
- Sat Oct 06, 2007 4:46 pm
- Forum: Tol Eressëa
- Topic: Physical violence against children
- Replies: 101
- Views: 43765
The only time when getting spanked really bothered me was when I knew that I was innocent. That happened twice, and I remember both time very clearly. I was only about three the first time and my older sister had cut my hair. She then blamed it on me and mom believed her for some reason. The second ...
- Sat Sep 29, 2007 1:34 pm
- Forum: Tol Eressëa
- Topic: Physical violence against children
- Replies: 101
- Views: 43765
Indeed. There is nothing more humiliating than people calling YOU down in public for a child's bad behavior. I think that everyone has been to the grocery store with a child that is grabbing stuff off of the shelves, is whining for candy or donuts and pretty much anything else that they can do to be...
- Thu Sep 27, 2007 10:24 pm
- Forum: Tol Eressëa
- Topic: Physical violence against children
- Replies: 101
- Views: 43765
No matter how hard you try to be a good parent, or grandparent as the case may be, we are only human. Sometimes we are going to fail. I have lost it more than once with my three children. I also have four step children, and sometimes the job is overwhelming. Soon, all of the children are going to li...
- Wed Sep 26, 2007 8:49 pm
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Get healthy ... or lose your job
- Replies: 9
- Views: 6117
I feel that this is treading shaky ground. Lifestyle choices, such as smoking are reasonable grounds for penalties, but once you get into other conditions, it is flat out discrimination. It would be unfair to penalize someone who is overweight because of a thyroid condition or anyone who has a condi...
- Mon Sep 24, 2007 5:17 pm
- Forum: The Cottage of Lost Play
- Topic: A moment of silence...
- Replies: 4
- Views: 3338
- Mon Sep 24, 2007 4:57 pm
- Forum: Tol Eressëa
- Topic: Physical violence against children
- Replies: 101
- Views: 43765
My daughter does nothing but laugh if I try to spank her. It is completely pointless because I hurt myself and thats about it. There are other, much more effective methods of dealing with her. One has been push-ups for serious transgressions. She and her younger brother are in the situation, since m...
- Mon Sep 24, 2007 1:58 pm
- Forum: The Shibboleth of Fëanor
- Topic: "How to write like Tolkien" and other silliness
- Replies: 75
- Views: 47322
- Mon Sep 24, 2007 3:26 am
- Forum: Tol Eressëa
- Topic: Physical violence against children
- Replies: 101
- Views: 43765
Before I put my 2 cents in my mouth ;) I'm curious - those who were spanked by parents as a routine punishment, how did your relationship played out as adults? My parents have changed quite a bit in the last 20 years or so. First of all, they have abandoned fundamentalist Christianity for a more br...
- Sun Sep 23, 2007 8:54 pm
- Forum: Tol Eressëa
- Topic: Physical violence against children
- Replies: 101
- Views: 43765
This is such a difficult can of worms. :( I think that making laws on the subject would be totally worthless. There comes the problem of enforcement, not to mention exactly where to draw the line. Would smacking a child's fingers away from a hot stove warrant prosecution? Or would it require more th...
- Sat Sep 22, 2007 4:45 pm
- Forum: Lasto Beth Lammen
- Topic: Kids and food additives
- Replies: 12
- Views: 7172