Jewel, I think I've seen you post and highlight that same verbiage about an INFJ before, about "knowing they are right". You seem to really identify with this tidbit.

I, unfortunately, cannot... one of the most accurate statements made about me lately (from my point of view, anyway) is that I don't HAVE to be right. The whole quote was something like: "I like to work with you on projects, because you are always invested in finding the best fit for the group. Unlike a lot of leaders, you don't have to be right".
I like to organize things, too, but not because I know I am right. I like to do it because I am naturally organized, I like to advance projects and help people get to their (or "our" collective) goal(s), and I can help find... through mediation and organization of goals and priorities... I can
usually help find a pretty good "best fit" for the group. I'm not good at conflict, and since overt conflict can hinder a group from reaching its goals, I will try to diffuse strong conflict and work around it. (Disagreements and debate, however, are GREAT for finding answers to issues!)
Find that common ground, that's me, and define common goals. It's not about being right, it's about finding the best answer... for everyone. Most people in the group wouldn't even know what I personally thought the best idea was. Interestingly, most people don't ask.

Plus, I *never* have a messy desk.

So... the part of INFJ that you highlighted doesn't fit me at all, at least I don't think so. So I looked at the rest of the link you posted. This part (from the same article) really rang out to me:
Quote:
INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. As an extreme example, some INFJs report experiences of a psychic nature, such as getting strong feelings about there being a problem with a loved one, and discovering later that they were in a car accident. This is the sort of thing that other types may scorn and scoff at, and the INFJ themself does not really understand their intuition at a level which can be verbalized. Consequently, most INFJs are protective of their inner selves, sharing only what they choose to share when they choose to share it. They are deep, complex individuals, who are quite private and typically difficult to understand. INFJs hold back part of themselves, and can be secretive.
But the INFJ is as genuinely warm as they are complex. INFJs hold a special place in the heart of people who they are close to, who are able to see their special gifts and depth of caring. INFJs are concerned for people's feelings, and try to be gentle to avoid hurting anyone. They are very sensitive to conflict, and cannot tolerate it very well. Situations which are charged with conflict may drive the normally peaceful INFJ into a state of agitation or charged anger. They may tend to internalize conflict into their bodies, and experience health problems when under a lot of stress.
I'm not too sure about the "psychic" stuff, but I think strong empathy can seem psychic, sometimes. People do give clues as to what is going on inside, if one just waits and is quiet and tunes in.
SO.... all of that (it is SO fun to talk about oneself, yessirree bob) to say that my former comment about picking and choosing might just apply, here. Jewel and I both think we are spot-on INFJs, and yet when we read a description, we gravitate to different places. I picked one part, and Jewel picked another. And we both feel like our chosen parts fit us to a T, and so we are both quintessential INFJs.
Kinda like a horoscope.
