Two fairly obvious cautionary notes: I share everyone's excitement at the approaching end of the official DADT policy. But it is still premature to assume that gays and lesbians will all be able to serve openly. The initial wave of open gays and lesbians - whether newly enlisting, or newly coming out - are going to have to be emotionally resilient. Many will inevitably deal with some degree of harassment, which may prolong the coming out of others. I expect that gay Marines will have a particularly difficult time, as some aspects of
this article support. The article quotes several, openly straight Marines suggesting that gays are not fit for combat, should be "stuck into" non-combat units like women, and will face problems in the "macho" Marines because "being gay means you're kind of girly." (I will omit my thoughts on the insidiously sexist nature of these comments and the absolute bar on females in combat for now.)
The other reason that full-blown celebration is premature is that DOMA is still in effect, and will likely bar gay military members with partners from full equality. Now that gay servicemembers can be open, can they reside in family housing with their spouses and any kids? Will the military provide spousal and survivors' benefits to their partners, including supporting gay spouses of deployed servicemembers on equal footing with straight spouses? Likely not as long as DOMA endures. I do not underestimate the importance of this step forward. But no one should labor under the delusion that the US military is about to start immediately treating gays and lesbians equally.
I do not personally believe that Obama views gay rights as a particularly important issue. He has, so far, delivered on two of four promises (hate crimes and DADT), the latter after nearly two years of frustration and anger from the gay supporters who contributed so much time and money to help elect him. He has continued to defend DOMA, a homophobic and probably unconstitutional law, in court (contrast Schwarzenegger and Brown on Prop. 8 ). And of course, he does not support same-sex marriage. However, even if I am wrong and he considers gay rights to be of vital importance, I suspect he will be unable to deliver on his remaining two promises - ENDA and DOMA - because the painfully effective "party of no" is about to control the legislative show even more effectively than they've been able to do in the minority.